Tantric Massage

The majority of people have heard of Tantric Massage or Tantric Sex; intimate touching, rubbing and caressing with a possibly orgasm. Basically, my knowledge solely comes from the brief scenes in a Sex In The City episode with 'Charlotte' convinces her three friends to join her in Tantric Massage classes.

Many people may be under the impression that tantric massage is all about penetrative sex, but they are incorrect with this assumption. Tantric massage is an actual massage technique that is created from believing that sexual happiness and relaxation will contribute to better health and provide other benefits. “Tantra” is the Hindu word meaning “personal growth in a pleasurable existence.”

Tantric massage can result in orgasm, but that is not the main objective of this form of massage. It does involve touching of the intimate organs but does not include penetrative sex. The exception is when this type of massage is provided in massage parlors in major cities across the world that tend to offer a “full range” of services and sex is the primary focus. Nudity is optional, although many find the experience to be enhanced when clothing is removed.

Tantric massage is best performed in a quiet room with accompanying soft music. The partner should lie on his back with legs spread apart, and a cushion should be placed beneath the hips. The head should also be raised enough to view the genitals. During the massage every part of the body to be touched with the private areas getting much of the attention. The object of massaging the other is to prepare him for the intimate touch and fondling that will follow. When these techniques are properly administered, tantric massage will teach the partners techniques for relaxation and arousal of the senses that will bring the partners closer together.

Using this method of massage, a person can easily learn which parts of his partner’s body are receptive to the touch and these areas can include the neck, scalp, inside of elbows, solar plexus, hands and feet and of course, the genital areas. One can often experience near orgasm from parts that are not obvious erogenous zones.

The advantage of tantric massage is that it allows the partner to touch areas of the body that a massage therapist would never venture to, and this will offer benefits to parts of the body that have been greatly stressed from activities such as sitting behind an office desk all day. For a change in routine, partners can experiment with different massage accessories and massage oils that can promote the release of endorphins while making the massage process itself smoother and more relaxing.